Few years back if someone was to say to me that he/she is into a long distance relationship(Getting introduced via mail or online communities etc..) i would have laughed at it!!! but now, with the growth of networking sites, it gives u so much of oppurtunity to know lots of new people and get to know them and it may very well end up in a relationship!!! but the point is can they really work??
one of the best things about long distance relationships is that when you see each other only once in a while, the build up of anticipation can be well, explosive!!! the downside is that, because you're having so much fun getting reacquainted over and over and over again, both of them might overlook annoying habits and mores erious character flaws that would be more noticable if you saw eah other!!!!
Again, the distance has its plus and minuses.... the distance allows you to pursue your other intersets easily, but at the same time it can be a lot frustrating to be away from each other in case both of them end up falling for each other.
But finally, i would say its not wrong to go and give it a try, but its better to do so without much expections. well, thats my view about it and ur comments are welcome:)
Happy Reading Friends:)
-Venkat.
one of the best things about long distance relationships is that when you see each other only once in a while, the build up of anticipation can be well, explosive!!! the downside is that, because you're having so much fun getting reacquainted over and over and over again, both of them might overlook annoying habits and mores erious character flaws that would be more noticable if you saw eah other!!!!
Again, the distance has its plus and minuses.... the distance allows you to pursue your other intersets easily, but at the same time it can be a lot frustrating to be away from each other in case both of them end up falling for each other.
But finally, i would say its not wrong to go and give it a try, but its better to do so without much expections. well, thats my view about it and ur comments are welcome:)
Happy Reading Friends:)
-Venkat.
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Hi Venkat, I strongly feel that minuses are more in such relationships, because first of all u dont know the authenticity of the person talking to u. For ex take the case of Minal (the gal who was murdered by a person with whom she had a online relationship,which turned out sour after knowing that he is married) - case belonging to Orkut relationship. And moreover its pretty unsafe for girls.I personally feel this...wat do u say , Venkat?
Hey archana.
That was a nice comment. I agree with wat u say and thanks for reminding me about the safety factor!!!! especially for girls. Yes, online relationships have this risk,coz through online u cannot identify a person completely and u go by wat he/she says, but again not all can be crooks!!! so i wud say it comes down to trust:) so yes its risky, but thats how these relationships are, it may help u to find ur life or may ruin u!!! so i would leave it to the person involved to adopt his/her own safety methods:)
man! this is spooking me out!
to be honest you're right..it's essential to wait and watch in such cases..but yeah ..not everyone you come across is a confirmed criminal!
i guess...you've hit the nail right on the spot!
ps- you're supposed to comment on my poems!
Hmmm..that was nice 2 hear:) Hit the nail right on the spot!!! and by da way i was used 2 posting comments n ur scrapbook, hereafter it will be on ur blogs, provided i understand em;) he he he;)
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u r most welcome!
i am with u venki...... i vote for ur comments......
I would say as long as u dont give ur personal details other than u r a boy/girl its perfectly safe .......
He He He..
That was really funny da:) Good one:)
well wouldn't there be a stage in the relationship where things heat up and you suddenly realise that you are becoming good friends with the your online friends!and then what?you still will refrain from giving your DETAILS ,as it were?
Online relationships may be risky but its nice to have online friends i mean i find it pretty interesting to know more people whether i meet them personally or not...as long as a person knows the limit its perfectly fine...thats my perspective...instinct tells you whats good n whats not...even if it turns out to be bad i guess we can handle the situation...i mean no one's that ignorant..
Hi Swetha:)
U have a pretty interesting point, but the point is once both f dem know each other for quite a long time, i feel they must meet up, otherwise there is no use in knowing each other well!!! but as u said ur instincts will help u to decide and also watever happens the situation wont get out of control, coz u can always go back if u feel the other person is not all that good as u perceived to be :) so ur right abt ur last point wer u said that instincts and no one is that ignorant. i fully agree with u. Thanks for ur comments:)
-Venkat.
welcome always:)
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